Breastfeeding should end sooner or later, and then the question arises: "How to wean a child from breastfeeding?" But if your baby flatly refuses to wean from breast milk nutrition? Many mothers face this problem, but some simple tips will help reduce the stress associated with weaning from both the mother and the baby.
Breastfeeding for many mothers and their babies goes in a natural way. The baby begins to show interest in food, which other people take, and begins to eat more nourishing food for him. And the more nutritious the child consumes, the less becomes his need for human milk. However, some babies simply refuse to disaccordate with their mother's breast on their own, and then a lot of moms can get tired, get upset, they have in mind one question: how to wean the child from breastfeeding. If you are tired of the problems associated with the completion of breastfeeding, then the following tips are likely to help you significantly in resolving this sensitive issue.
So, how to properly wean your child from breast?
It should not be allowed to abruptly stop breastfeeding. Usually the baby is very upset if the mother does so that in the future it can affect his psyche and turn into bouts of frustration. Just try to reduce the number of breastfeedings during the day, you can also try to replace breast feeding with a bottle or a cup of expressed breast milk. This gradual reduction in the time spent on breastfeeding will eliminate the child's discomfort, especially when you offer him breast milk( not giving the breast).With the passage of some time, breast milk can be replaced with a special infant formula.
When deciding to wean the child from breastfeeding, it is also necessary to eliminate "provocation" from my mother's side. That is, with crumbs you do not need to change clothes or appear in your underwear. For the time should be abandoned blousons, tops, dressing gowns or shirts, preferring T-shirts - to his "treasure" now the baby will be harder to get. Also, it is better to sit with him less - than the mother above, the more difficult it is to get to her and the easier it is to distract yourself from anything else.
If a crumb has expressed a desire to suck, you need to pretend that you did not notice this or did not understand. If the kid insists - try switching attention to something interesting. For example, drop all the cases and run together to see if Dad came home - invite the child to look in the "peephole" himself, you can even open the door and check. Then run to the bathroom to listen to the cricket. Next - to see a white dove behind the window in the room, after - a crow with a long tail from the kitchen window. .. And the stronger the emotion, the more interesting the baby - the better the effect. Do not be afraid to go too far with this: the more such switching, the easier it is to distract the crumb from his obsession, only to do everything you need sincerely, as the children immediately feel any falsehood. It is important: you can not tell the little one "I will not give", you are understanding, loving, the best mother in the world!
Most children cry, waking up in the middle of the night. Mom usually tries to calm the baby and put him to sleep again. Unfortunately, the process of calming the crumbs can include breastfeeding. It will be better if the dad or granny takes care of the child's comfort. Ultimately, the problem will be solved, as well, how to wean the child from breastfeeding at night.
Children are more mature, who can already talk and perceive your speech, you can put restrictions on the time and place of breastfeeding. Tell the baby: "I will now only breastfeed you before bedtime" or "I'll breastfeed now only when it gets dark outside."When you are ready to stop breastfeeding completely, just say: "Now you are big, and big ones do not feed on breast milk of your mother."
It is important to remember that in children emotional stress caused by the end of breastfeeding can be very strong. Consequently, the lack of breastfeeding should be replaced by strong embraces, kisses, more frequent caresses. Often spend time with the baby, walk, paint pictures, draw, watch cartoons, read books: replace the emotional dependence of the child from breastfeeding other positive emotions.
When deciding how to disaccustom a child from breastfeeding, remember that excommunication should not coincide with moving, leaving, going to work mom or baby in a kindergarten, the appearance of a nanny. In such cases, we need to wean the crumb for a couple of months before or a couple of months after these events. If someone in the family is sick( especially the baby), you need to wait at least a month from the time of recovery. They think that it is better not to excommunicate during the warm season, becausea changing diet, an increase in the number of vegetables and fruits in it contributes to increased infections and gastrointestinal disorders. And one more important factor to which one should pay attention is the emotional and mental state of the child. If now he has a difficult period, the kid often fits or rebels( and this does not happen without serious reasons), then with the excommunication should be a little delay.
I wish you and your little one trouble-free, calm and painless excommunication!